melting

so its hot hot today, i am kind of melting away...
Even inside is hot, which is strange as normally at work (and everywhere else) the air con is blowing so hard that you have to put a cardy on to go inside. however today it would seem that they are saving energy, which i am all for but wow i didn't expect it and thus am not wearing the correct attire, i wish i could spell as thats a great word.
Went to the hospital to get the normal perscription, like a hundred and one pills to take over the course of a month. Sarah was eating a cucmber stick and again some kind man gave her two lolly pops, i said no thank you in Chinese (aren't you amazed at my abilty to speak Chinese?? well don't be i am rubbish after 31/2 years you'd think i could carry off a converstaion, i can't). Anyway he takes them away and then give her one...right in her hand. what am i meant to do with that, so i just give it too her. I have a feeling that she gets sweets from her nanny as yesterday when i picked her up she smelled like candy floss (cotton candy i think you call it). I asked her if Ei Ee gave it to her(aunt in chinese...there i go again showing off my wonderfull chinese!), she said no, who did? Bar Bar (dad). So not only did the husband give her candy but she's calling him dad. great right.So now she calls Chad (Heathers husband) daddy and this guy Bar Bar...she has two dads. However i don't think she understand what it means and is just copying what the other kids call him. fair enough. As for the sweets, i am happy for her to have sweets sometimes but not often seriously this girl has already had tooth deacay i really don't need her eating tons of sweets..plus she has enough problems getting to sleep, and calming down as it is..
So i had to tell her no more sweets please...plus who knows what's in those sweets, milk, eggs, gelatin (pigs bones...) so much for a vegan baby!